Modern-day romance, with all of the technology around us, can feel like an intense mix of exciting, fun, and overwhelming. We can get discouraged, confused, and frustrated with the process, when all we want to do is meet someone special to be in partnership with. It can feel complex when we want it to be simple. We may wonder if the love we seek will ever find us.
We long for that special warmth at the end of the day from someone who cherishes us. We want to feel pursued. We want to be deeply wanted For the beauty in us that goes deeper than our skin. We long to feel seen in our hearts and in the brilliance of our mind.
We long to feel appreciated for what we’ve been through, where we’re going, and to know that we have a partner enthusiastically committed to loving and witnessing our ever-unfolding vulnerability.
And at the center of it all, we long to feel chosen.
Emily, 28, Pheonix, Astrologer & Entrepreneur
“Before working with Jules, I feel like I approached my dating life as work. I had no idea what I was truly looking for. I had my ‘ideal’ list, but I didn’t know how to discern those traits in real life and I was always afraid of ‘messing things up’.” During my time in Chosen, I matched and met with my current partner of almost one year! The best part was my energy in doing so. I felt so confident, happy, light, and free while dating him. Jules really had a way of bringing me back to my inner knowing. There were so many times I just wanted someone to tell me what to do! I really appreciated her guidance.”
In CHOSEN: 12 Weeks of courageous dating you will…
Find clarity, commitment, and certainty within yourself.
Own your desire for love and intimacy, first and foremost.
Uncover the needs that you’ve buried because of disappointment and bring them to the surface.
Learn how to find what you’re actually looking for in a partner.
Unhook from the neediness for a man to choose you.
Receive rejection as a divine gift.
Rewrite old stories of shame and abandonment.
Learn how to build an emotional connection with a man alongside a sexual one.
Bring your full feminine radiance to the dating process.
Surrender the outcome of your dating life while keeping your desires top priority so that you can have the relationship you’ve always wanted.
Chosen is for you if:
You’re ready to feel anchored and empowered in the dating process in a way you haven’t before.
You’re ready to try a new way forward that will challenge you, and will ultimately bring out the best in you.
You tend to rush connections, get reactive, or end things altogether when you get anxious.
You don’t want to settle, but you feel like you have to sometimes.
You struggle to honor the boundaries you say you want.
You could use some guidance when it comes to imagining the relationship that would be right for you.
You are unwilling to accept confusion and inconsistency from men any longer.
You’re ready to do this process with a sisterhood around you, and with Jules as your guide. You don’t want to be in this alone anymore.
Chosen is not for you if:
✖️You are more committed to keeping your patterns than to changing them.
✖️You want Jules, or any other member of the group, to have the answers that can only come from inside you.
✖️You cannot accept guidance and feedback along with encouragement in a group setting.
✖️You have a gut feeling this program is not for you.
✖️The price of the program would cause so much financial stress that you find yourself unable to fully participate in the program and your dating life.
The Program Includes
A Little Bit About My Dating Story
At the age of 20, I met the man I would later marry and have my two beautiful daughters with. We were madly in love and in every way that I understood at the time, I was committed to loving him for the rest of my life.
And I believe now, 14 years and a divorce later, that we kept that promise.
After my divorce, I learned how to date all over again. through the ups and downs, I had to walk through an incredibly vulnerable experience while surrendering my need to control the outcome.
I didn’t know when I would get to have another partner. I didn’t know when I’d get married again. All I knew was that I wanted to believe I could love and trust someone with my heart one day, and that I wanted to be that trustworthy person for myself first and foremost.
Here is what we will do together.
we will practice.
Practice getting in line with your personal values.
Practice forgiving yourself.
Practice dating from self-trust.
Practice intuitively creating the boundaries and guardrails you need.
Practice genuine vulnerability.
You will let go of your need to control the process.
You will soften.
You will bloom.
You will fall in love with romance. And you will do it with your eyes wide open.
You will commit to yourself the same way you want him to commit to you.
You will stay right here. In this moment. With your body.
at times you’ll want to rush, fixate, stay guarded, and hurry toward your goal instead of meeting yourself where you are.
Then you will remember to come back to yourself.
And you’ll let go.
And let go again.
Until you become present to the relationship happening in front of you.
In my own dating life, I’ve learned that I can’t control the process no matter how hard I try (and trust me, I’ve tried!). This is what makes it hopeful and fun. This is why after years, dating could still surprise and delight me. My dating process built up my self-esteem and made me MORE confident, not less!
dating showed me that The fear I felt in my lack of control, the confusion, the loneliness, couldn’t be escaped with any level of power or control that I thought I had in the rest of my life. I couldn’t make men do what i wanted them to. the only thing i had control over was myself. and that liberated me.
This is a dating program that will ask you to surrender the outcome; to trust yourself in this moment; to let go of your neediness for a man to choose you, and meet yourself with commitment, compassion, and creativity.
INVESTMENT
12 Video Modules from Jules
Four Live Group Coaching Calls with Jules with live support and Q&A
Personal Guidance and coaching from Jules inside the online community forum
A sisterhood of women, with Jules as your personal guide, who will hold you all the way through the course
Weekly Journaling practices
The Relationship Mapping Workbook available immediately
BONUS MATERIALS
SIGN UP IN JULY AND YOU’LL RECEIVE:
Chosen: 12 weeks of Courageous Dating
Immediate Access to the Relationship Mapping WorkbookRecording: Mastering Self Validation Workshop ($299 value)
BONUS CALL: Wednesday, August 22nd at 1-2:30pm CST
Upgrade and get three 1:1 sessions with Jules throughout the program for $1200 (a $1500 value).
*This upgrade includes the full Chosen program + the three 1:1 sessions with Jules.
Program live call Dates
BONUS CALL: Wednesday, August 22nd
September 12th
October 10th
November 14th
December 12th
all calls will be held at 1 - 2:30pm CST and are recorded for members to view later if you are not able to attend live.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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While this is a program geared toward and created for single women, the teachings and practices translate into any relationship context. If you’re in a new relationship and want to feel more anchored in your worth, your self care, and your radiance, this program could be a great fit for you.
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This program is perfect for women who are not sure whether they are ready to date, because it's all about getting clear on what's true and brave for you in any given moment. You may feel at times that you're ready, and at others that you're not, and this gives us valuable practice relating with ourselves in a more nuanced, kind way that isn’t so black-and-white. This is something we want to practice with whomever we are dating as well.
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This program is unique from Jules’s other programs in two ways: first, it is neither self-paced, nor strictly group coaching calls. In this course format, we make the most of pre-recorded video teachings, as well as an online community forum where Jules personally offers coaching on a near-daily basis in order to keep you supported without the limitations that scheduling conflicts can create. This also allows us to create the highest-impact support environment for you at the lowest price point possible.
Second, this Is the only dating program Jules offers. If you’d like to receive dating support from her in another format, you are always invited to apply for one-on-one coaching with her.
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BONUS CALL: Wednesday, August 22nd at 1-2:30pm CST
Tuesday, September 12th
Tuesday, October 10th
Tuesday, November 14th
Tuesday, December 12th
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The course is not self-paced. Each video module will become available for viewing one at a time each Tuesday (12 videos over 12 weeks). Additional practices and journaling inquiries will be made available in the online community forum throughout the course as well.
As always, you are invited to take in the videos as slowly as you may need. We do recommend that you actively make the time you know is right for you while you are a member of the course, and we trust that whatever pace you need is the right pace for you.
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Access to the course portal will end February 7th, and members are invited to download the video modules anytime before then if you would like to keep them for viewing after the course is over.
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The next offering will be in September 2024.
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We recommend setting aside around 30 minutes for each video teaching (one per week) plus however much time you plan to spend engaged in the online community forum.
Still have questions? Send us an email at hello@juleswebber.com
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Meet Jules…
Jules Webber is a Life Coach guiding women to turn their knowledge of love into a real-life embodied experience that transforms their ability to show up in the world. She offers coaching services for empowered, modern women who want to feel enough in their purpose, love who they really are, experience deep intimacy, and let go of the subconscious beliefs sabotaging their happiness.